Get the meaningful connection you’ve always wanted.

I’ll show you how.

INTRODUCING

Highly effective and impactful from the very first Unit.” - Rachel

"This course has opened up entirely new perspectives for us... and it has really helped. I hope we continue to use the tools." - Thomas

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Reconnect, Reignite, and Rebuild Your Relationship in 8 Weeks.

Experience a transformative journey jam-packed with evidence-based communication skills and heart-opening exercises designed to restore lasting joy & passionate love.

“This course offers exceptional training that really makes things shift. It gets those who are stuck, unstuck. I cannot overstress the impact this has had on my professional practice, my relationship with my husband, and my understanding of myself.” - Debra

Awakening Love is your step-by-step guide to truly understanding each other, communicating without battles, and reigniting that spark you two used to have. 

Led by renowned expert Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari, this self-paced course combines guided recorded lessons with weekly practices to give you the tools, insights, and exercises that deepen your bond. With clear weekly roadmap & 12 months of full access, consider it your conscious guide to creating the happy, connected, passionate relationship you've always wanted (and definitely deserve).

Is Awakening Love right for you? You’ll know you’re in the right place if...

The "Roommate" Syndrome

You’re sitting on the same couch, watching the same show, but you feel miles apart. The physical distance is inches; the emotional distance feels like a canyon.

‍ ‍The "Ghost" of Childhood

You didn't have a roadmap for a "happy home" growing up. You’re working overtime to build a sanctuary for your family, but sometimes you feel like you’re building it in the dark.

✔ The Broken Record

You can predict exactly how an argument will go before it even starts. You’re tired of the same "script" and the heavy silence that follows for days.

‍ ‍The Invisible Partner

You do the dishes, pay the bills, and keep the world spinning—but you can’t remember the last time you felt truly seen or cherished for who you are, not just what you do.

‍ ‍The Success Gap

On paper, your life is envy-inducing. But behind closed doors, the joy is missing. You have the "dream life," but you’ve lost the person you wanted to share it with.

✔ The Emotional Drain

Coming home feels like a second job rather than a relief. You’re "walking on eggshells," bracing for a conflict instead of exhaling into a hug.

‍ ‍The Quiet Hunger

You’re starving for a touch that isn't transactional and a conversation that isn't about the calendar or the kids. You just want to feel like a priority again.

“We are in a more harmonious space. Paying attention to each other more. It is a learning journey and we want to repeat the course right through again.” - Ryan

If you found yourself nodding—or if your heart grew a little heavy reading those words—please know that it doesn't have to stay this way. You aren't "failing"; you’re just navigating without the right tools.

Over 8 weeks inside Awakening Love, you’ll…

My appreciation of Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari is based on the many years I have known her in her capacity as an Imago couple’s therapist, a trainer of clinical professionals in Imago Therapy, a member of the Imago clinical faculty, and as holder of the Imago community in England.  Her exceptional capacity as a couple’s therapist, her brilliance in the articulation of theory and modelling of practice, is matched by her impeccable character, integrity and honesty as a person. She is without doubt an exceptional human being as well as top tier professional. My honour to endorse her.

Harville Hendrix, Ph. D., co-founder of Imago Relationship Therapy.

Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari, couples therapy professional
Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari, couples counselling specialist

Are YOU ready to Awaken Love?

One-time payment of

£597

Three payments of

£217 X 3=£651

What’s inside this transformational course experience?

  • Learn the stages of relationships and uncover your unconscious blueprint for romantic connection — the patterns that quietly shape your dynamic.

  • Start building the mindset required for solid, lasting connection, and master Kalanit’s 5 simple rules for lifelong love.

  • Understand how your family history influences your longing, attraction, bonding, and ultimately your relationship success.

  • Break the common relationship myths you were taught, and discover how your partnership is your most powerful mirror for growth and healing.

Navigating the Journey of Relationships

Love Unfolded:

DURING UNIT 1 …

Unlocking the Connection Code:

DURING UNIT 2 …

  • Learn the 3-Step Framework to communicate with ease, and dive deep on practicing connected dialogues — plus, watch Kalanit’s demos with a real couple. 

  • Get clear on one decision that transforms your relationship! 

  • Discover the power of non-symbolic connection (body language!) & learn the secrets for creating strong emotional bond.

  • Break the 5 common communication mistakes and learn simple shifts that strengthen emotional safety.

  • See how perspective-shifting turns tension into understanding so conversations bring you closer.

Mastering the Art of Meaningful Conversations

Navigating Relationship Conflicts:

DURING UNIT 3 …

  • Understand why couples fight and learn the key pillars that counter the 4 predictors of separation.

  • Identify your defensive reaction style and get a tailored guide to break your “relationship dance.”

  • Master the 7 pillars of conflict resolution so arguments turn into connection, not distance.

  • Dive into the process of forgiveness and practice Kalanit’s best exercises to calm an overwhelmed or triggered mind.

  • Plus — enjoy the bonus lesson: learn how to train your brain so you can free yourself from old, destructive relationship patterns.

From Tensions to Connection

Seeds of Connection, Horizons of Love

DURING UNIT 4 …

  • Discover your attachment style and how it shapes closeness, bonding, and conflict — and what you can do to deepen connection.

  • Identify the underlying drains in your relationship and get a roadmap to bring energy and warmth back.

  • Learn how to use technology to enhance your connection, not to replace it! 

  • Uncover your love language and reignite affection and desire.

  • Design the relationship of your dreams with simple steps to start living it now.

  • Experience the healing exercise Holding Close.

DURING UNIT 5 …

Sustaining the Spark:

Strategies for real love

  • Learn the Secrets of relationship success: Yes, you CAN master them too!

  • Get the Love Accelerator and discover how to activate the “love hormone” in long-term relationships.

  • Learn 6 ways to amplify joy and unlock new levels of passion and excitement.

  • Build a conscious relationship mindset that transforms how you show up for each other.

  • Learn how to keep the connection strong and alive in long-lasting relationships. 

  • Reignite desire and keep the connection alive, with a clear plan to deepen your journey beyond the course.

It’s everything you need for a meaningful & joyful relationship…

I won’t just tell you what to do—I’ll show you exactly how to do it. You’ll get bite-sized lessons and 'Relationship Builder' exercises that guide you step-by-step through my 145-page clinical workbook. Inside, you’ll follow a clear daily action plan to help you reclaim the connected relationship you deserve —using the same clinical frameworks I’ve used in my own 25-year relationship.

“The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life.“

But wait there is more! 

You’ll also get this bonus when you join Awakening Love:

Women’s Sexual Empowerment with Dr Tammy Nelson

Valued at £76

Dr. Tammy Nelson, bestselling author and renowned international sex therapist, brings over 25 years of expertise to help couples thrive in love and intimacy.

Are you struggling with sexual shame, unsatisfying orgasms, or a lack of desire? It's time to reclaim your pleasure and embrace your sensual self! Dr. Tammy Nelson will walk you through everything about women's sexual empowerment. Learn how prioritising your pleasure can boost your intuition, openness, and joy in life.

She'll explore healing from pleasure denial and rekindling your erotic spirit. You'll also get practical tips for communicating your sexual needs as a couple and creating the intimate experiences you crave. Ready to rediscover pleasure and put your satisfaction first? This webinar is your first step towards a more fulfilled, orgasmic you!

MEET YOUR INSTRUCTOR

Portrait of Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari, expert in relationship tools

Over the past 25+ years, I've transformed the lives of thousands of couples as a senior couples therapist and workshop presenter. My journey began with my own parents' painful divorce, driving me to commit my professional and personal life to studying the secrets behind healthy and successful relationships. This journey took me around the world to train with the best in the field, learning how to build a conscious and healthy relationship with my partner—one I will be proud to pass on to my children.

From 2013 to 2023, I served as the Chair of Imago UK and am a faculty member at the Imago International Training Institute. As an international speaker and trainer, I’ve traveled the globe, training thousands of therapists on how to transform conflict into connection, improve communication, and build strong relationships. My work has been featured in The Sunday Times, BBC, The Independent, Stylist, Evening Standard, and more.

I believe that small but consistent changes in mindset, awareness, and behaviour can work wonders for couples. The success and transformation of thousands of couples who have worked with me over the past 20 years inspired me to create the Awakening Love online course.

Are you ready to be our next success story?

Hi! I’m Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari - relationship expert, international speaker, author, & therapist trainer.

I’ve taken what I’ve learned from more than two decades of clinical and personal experience and created a straightforward, step-by-step, empowering program for you to achieve a joyful, peaceful, & happy relationship.

“Kalanit takes you on an adventure of self-discovery. She empowers you with indispensable tools that open new horizons. Imago is a communication tool that unlocks hidden treasures with compassion and respect—things that might have impacted your life forever without you even being aware of them." - Debra, London- married 18 years

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Therapists pay £2,000+ to train with me. Awakening Love gives you the same proven frameworks I teach professionals—designed for couples over 8 weeks, for under £600.

Enroll now, during this limitede offer, to receive:

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Are YOU ready to Awakening Love?

One-time payment of

£597

Three payments of

£217 X 3=£651

What the professional community has to say…

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Frequently Asked Questions

Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari, expert in couples counselling

Imagine a relationship filled with joy, fulfilment, and deep connection.

That ☝️ is the relationship you can create with the right guidance and tools.

When you nurture your bond with intention and proven strategies, the love and harmony you crave become a reality. But finding that path to a thriving relationship can feel impossible without the right guidance, especially amidst the hustle and bustle of everyday life.

I didn’t grow up with a healthy model of couple relationships. I had to travel the world to learn from the best in the field, read countless books, and dive into research to transform the relationship model I grew up with into a healthy one. The system I created and have used in my own 25+ year relationship is the exact system that has helped thousands of couples transform their relationships. It’s presented in a straightforward, step-by-step program for your convenience.

Now, you can access that wisdom from the comfort of your own home.

If you can commit to small, consistent changes, then you, my friend, have the makings of a deeply satisfying and enduring relationship.

Awakening Love covers every “how to” – from building intimacy to effective communication, from resolving conflicts to reigniting the spark. After Awakening Love, you’ll know exactly how to cultivate the relationship you’ve always desired.

So get ready to celebrate a love that grows stronger each day. 🍾

With all my best,

Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari

"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending".

— Maria Robinson

"Time won't heal your relationship on its own. The patterns pulling you apart only grow stronger. If the old ways aren't working, it's time to transform. If you're ready, I'll show you how."

Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari

And that’s not all!

Your second bonus: Energise Your Love: Qi Gong for Couples with Rosa Kelly!

Valued at £49

Here’s what you’ll discover:

A series of fun and gentle Qi Gong practices designed specifically for couples.
Experience a deeper connection, grounding, and balance as you practice together.
Naturally boost your energy levels—including your sexual energy!
And the best part? You can enjoy these easy-to-follow routines right from the comfort of your own home.

And there is more!

Your third bonus: Money Talks: Navigating Money beliefs and Messages in Relationships with Michele Bohls!

Valued at £49

Here’s what you’ll discover:

💰 Uncover your personal money mindset and how it interacts with your partner’s.
🗣 Get a guide to meaningful, judgment-free money dialogues.
🔍 Understand how your early experiences and beliefs shape your financial relationship.
And the best part? You can have these conversations on your own schedule — together, privately, at home.

“Kalanit’s profound expertise, compassionate approach, and unwavering dedication to fostering fulfilling relationships are inspirational, professionally and personally. Her mastery of the Imago Relationship Therapy framework is evident in her presence and joyful aliveness… She has a unique talent for conveying complex concepts with clarity and enthusiasm, making them an invaluable resource ... The impact of Kalanit's work is profound and far-reaching. I wholeheartedly recommend Kalanit… Her wisdom, compassion, and dedication make her an outstanding choice for individuals and couples striving to build stronger, healthier relationships and for professionals looking to enhance their skills in this transformative modality.”

Yafit Nahari, Integrative Psychotherapist

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