Get the meaningful connection you’ve always wanted.
I’ll show you how.
INTRODUCING
Revive your love with 8-week course experience jam-packed with evidence-based communication skills, heart-opening exercises, and transformative frameworks designed to rekindle a deeper connection, lasting joy, and passionate love.
Awakening Love is your step-by-step guide to truly understanding each other, communicating without battles, and reigniting that spark you two used to have.
Led by renowned expert Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari, this course experience seamlessly blends live sessions & self-paced learning to equip you with the exact tools, eye-opening secrets, and revitalising exercises you need to deepen your bond. Consider it your how-to manual for cultivating the happy, connected, passionate relationship you've always wanted (and definitely deserve).
Is Awakening Love right for you? Here's how you'll know:
✔ You're committed partners who've lost that spark, unsure how to reignite the passion and closeness.
✔ You didn't grow up seeing healthy relationship role models, but you're determined to create a loving, secure bond.
✔ The same conflicts and frustrations keep replaying, and you're ready to break free from that cycle.
✔ You're feeling disconnected and lonely, craving to feel truly understood and cared for again.
✔ You've built an amazing life together, you just need research-backed tools to inject more joy into your partnership.
✔ The relationship dynamics are draining rather than uplifting - you want vitality and deep connection.
✔ You're experiencing relationship burnout - feeling taken for granted & starved of appreciation. You want to reignite that sense of being cherished, valued, & supported by your partner.
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Are you nodding along, thinking "Yes, that's me!"? If those words struck a chord, you've come to the right place.
During 8 weeks inside of Awakening Love, you’ll…
My appreciation of Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari is based on the many years I have known her in her capacity as an Imago couple’s therapist, a trainer of clinical professionals in Imago Therapy, a member of the Imago clinical faculty, and as holder of the Imago community in England. Her exceptional capacity as a couple’s therapist, her brilliance in the articulation of theory and modelling of practice, is matched by her impeccable character, integrity and honesty as a person. She is without doubt an exceptional human being as well as top tier professional. My honour to endorse her.
Harville Hendrix, Ph. D., co-founder of Imago Relationship Therapy.
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What’s inside of this live course experience?…
Learn the stages of relationships & discovered your unconscious blueprint for romantic relationships that underline your dynamic.
Start understanding the mindset you need for solid connection— plus, master Kalanit’s 5 simple rule for lifelong love.
Uncover how your family history impact your longing, attraction, bond and ultimately your relationship success.
Break the relationship meths you were told about relationships- plus discover how your relationship is your best mirror for your own growth and healing.
Navigating the Journey of Relationships
Love Unfolded:
DURING UNIT 1 …
Unlocking the Connection Code:
DURING UNIT 2 …
Learn the 3-Step Framework to communicate with ease, and dive deep on practicing connected dialogues — plus, watch Kalanit’s demos with a real couple.
Get really clear on one decision that will transform your relationship!
Discover the power of non-symbolic connection (body language!) & learn the secretes for creating strong emotional bond.
Understand the five mistakes couples do and how to break free from them!
Explore the transformative power of shifting perspectives!
Mastering the Art of Meaningful Conversations
Navigating Relationship Conflicts:
DURING UNIT 3 …
Discover why couples fight & the relationship pillars to tackling the 4 predictors of separation.
Get clear on your defensive reaction to conflict & learn about your ‘relationship dance’- plus get a tailored guide for growth for your own specific defensive reaction style.
Learn the 7 pillars for conflict resolution that will transform your rapture into connection!
Dive into the process of forgiveness & Kalanit’s best exercises to calm an overwhelmed and triggered mind.
Plus- Get the bonus! Learn how to control your brain so you free yourself from old distractive patterns of relationships.
From Tensions to Connection
Seeds of Connection, Horizons of Love
DURING UNIT 4 …
Understand your attachment style and it’s impact on your relationship (and know what you can do about it to deepen your connection).
Uncover the underlining sources that drains your relationship & get a roadmap to bring the energy back to the relationship.
Learn how to use technology to enhance your connection, not to replace it!
Discover your love language and how to utilise this information to re-fire the love in your relationship.
Designed your relationship of your dreams and get tips on how to live the relationship that you want.
Experience the healing exercise Holding Close.
DURING UNIT 5 …
Sustaining the Spark:
Strategies for real love
Understand the secretes for successful relationship: Yes, you CAN do it too!
Get the guide for the love accelerator plus discover how to kick the love hormone in long tern relationship!
Learn the 6 ways to amplify joy & a special lesson to unlocking passion and excitement into the mix.
Manifest conscious relationship mindset that will change your relationship forever.
Learn how to keep the connection strong and alive in long-lasting relationships.
Reignite passion and desire, with expert strategies to keep the spark alive and well.
Get a plan framework to deepen your journey beyond the course.
It’s everything you need for meaningful & joyful relationship…
And don’t worry - I’m not just telling you WHAT to do, I’m breaking it all down for you. You’ll get bit-size clips, workbook, and Relationship Builder excursuses that guides you step-by-step to create the relationship you always wanted (and deserved!)… my comprehensive workbook that lays out the steps and specific action(s) you need to take every single day so you’re happy and fulfilled in your relationship… the exact secrets I use to elevate my over 20 years (!) relationship … and a whole lot more.
“The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life.“
But wait there is more!
You’ll also get this bonus when you join Awakening Love:
Women’s Sexual Empowerment with Dr Tammy Nelson
Valued at $97
Dr. Tammy Nelson, bestselling author and renowned international sex therapist, brings over 25 years of expertise to help couples thrive in love and intimacy.
Are you struggling with sexual shame, unsatisfying orgasms, or a lack of desire? It's time to reclaim your pleasure and embrace your sensual self! Dr. Tammy Nelson will walk you through everything about women's sexual empowerment. Learn how prioritising your pleasure can boost your intuition, openness, and joy in life.
She'll explore healing from pleasure denial and rekindling your erotic spirit. You'll also get practical tips for communicating your sexual needs as a couple and creating the intimate experiences you crave. Ready to rediscover pleasure and put your satisfaction first? This webinar is your first step towards a more fulfilled, orgasmic you!
MEET YOUR INSTRUCTOR
Hi! I’m Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari - relationship expert, international speaker, author, and therapist trainer.
Over the past 20+ years, I've transformed the lives of thousands of couples as a senior couples therapist and workshop presenter. My journey began with my own parents' painful divorce, driving me to commit my professional and personal life to studying the secrets behind healthy and successful relationships. This journey took me around the world to train with the best in the field, learning how to build a conscious and healthy relationship with my partner—one I will be proud to pass on to my children.
From 2013 to 2023, I served as the Chair of Imago UK and am a faculty member at the Imago International Training Institute. As an international speaker and trainer, I’ve traveled the globe, training thousands of therapists on how to transform conflict into connection, improve communication, and build strong relationships. My work has been featured in The Sunday Times, BBC, The Independent, Stylist, Evening Standard, and more.
I believe that small but consistent changes in mindset, awareness, and behaviour can work wonders for couples. The success and transformation of thousands of couples who have worked with me over the past 20 years inspired me to create the Awakening Love online course.
Are you ready to be our next success story?
I’ve taken what I’ve learned from more than two decades of clinical and personal experience and created a straightforward, step-by-step, empowering program for you to achieve a peaceful, happy relationship.
Are you ready to learn my five rules for lasting love, get access to evidence-based, step-by-step guides and frameworks, and discover everything you need for a joyful, intimate, and meaningful relationship?
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For less than the cost of one therapy session with Dr. Kalanit.
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What the professional community has to say…
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“I want to sing the virtues of Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari. I had the privilege of co-leading a 3-day advanced training with her and hearing her speak at conferences. Dr. Kalanit is thorough, an amazing facilitator, warm and engaging. I witnessed a true master trainer at work; she truly is amazing!"
Michael Borash. Director of Clinical Services
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“Working with Kalanit was a real privilege as she is an absolute master of her craft... This is also because Imago really works; it is my favourite tool for helping to improve communication and connection... On a personal level, I attended Kalanit’s workshop for couples and the experience initiated profound and enduring change and growth. Thank you, Kalanit!”
Fraya Zella Wolf, Counsellor and psychotherapist
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"Dr. K. Ben-Ari is exceptionally dedicated and passionate, deeply committed to each student's learning journey. She delivers invaluable wisdom and practical strategies to enhance couples' relationships... which I have found invaluable in my own relationship. Her sessions rank among the top 20 attended events of the last three years out of almost 2,000!"
John Wilson, Director at Temenos Education and the co-founder of Onlinevents
Frequently Asked Questions
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The live classes will take place on the following dates, all scheduled for Tuesdays at 20:00 UK time. If you’re unable to join a live session, don’t worry—you’ll have access to the recorded sessions on demand.
Week 1: 29/10/24, 20:00 (UK)
Week 2: 5/11/24, 20:00 (UK)
Week 3: 12/11/24, 20:00 (UK)
Week 4: 19/11/24, 20:00 (UK)
Week 5: 26/11/24, 20:00 (UK)
Week 6: 3/12/24, 20:00 (UK)
Week 7: 10/12/24, 20:00 (UK)
Week 8: 17/12/24, 20:00 (UK)
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This course is all about action, not just theory. We’ve seen the best results with couples who make their relationship a priority. The course is designed to guide you through the process so that the changes are lasting.
Each week, you’ll get access to new content, with short and impactful video clips, usually 6-12 minutes each. Including the recommended exercises, it’s about 2 hours a week—plus the optional live class if you’d like to join us.
But we get it—life happens! That’s why you’ll have 6 months of access to all the materials after the course ends, so you can revisit and reinforce what you’ve learned as much as you need.
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While the course is structured over 8 weeks to maintain a steady progression, you can access the materials at any time that suits your schedule. This allows you to learn at your own pace. Plus, you will have access for 6 months, so you can revisit and rewatch them at any time!
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You can take the course individually or together as a couple—it's flexible to suit your needs.
While the course is designed with couples in mind to enhance teamwork and mutual growth, individuals can still benefit greatly.
The exercises and strategies are adaptable for both scenarios, ensuring you gain valuable insights regardless of how you choose to participate.
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While the Awakening Love online course provides valuable tools and insights for improving your relationship, it is not a substitute for therapy.
The course is designed to inspire your journey towards a healthier relationship, but it is not intended to replace personalised therapy sessions with a licensed professional.
If you have serious relationship issues like violence, abuse, addiction, infidelity, mental health concerns, it is recommended to seek professional therapy.
However, the system of the course works—when you are committed to the process and the relationship, you will see results.
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If you’re looking to improve communication, enhance intimacy, resolve conflicts effectively, and build a stronger, more joyful and fulfilling relationship, this course is right for you.
It’s designed for couples at any stage of their relationship who are committed to making positive changes.
Whether you’re newly together or have been in a relationship for years, the practical strategies and insights provided will help you create the relationship you desire.
If you’re ready to invest in your relationship and see real results, this course is an excellent choice.
However, if issues such as addiction or mental health concerns are present, this course should accompany therapy with a licensed professional.
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Wondering what happens if you invest in the Awakening Love course and feel like it isn’t right for you? I’ve got you covered. If you join, dive into the curriculum, and still feel like it’s not the program for you, we’ll part ways amicably.
I offer a 7-day money-back guarantee. If within the first 7 days you decide the course isn’t for you, just email my team and we’ll sort it out. You’re never stuck if it’s not the right fit for your journey.
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This course is designed to transform your relationship using the latest insights from mindfulness, body-mind learning, neuroscience, and couples therapy. Led by Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari, an internationally recognised therapist and trainer, you’ll gain direct access to her proven methods that have empowered thousands worldwide. With over 20 years of marriage experience and a solid foundation in clinical research, Dr. Kalanit offers practical, relatable advice grounded in real-life scenarios.
But the real game-changer? It doesn’t just teach you what to do, but also how to do it. And unlike other programs where you're left on your own, here you’ll be part of weekly live group sessions. This means you’ll stay accountable, supported, and actively engaged as you make real progress toward the fulfilling relationship you desire.
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Yes, the course is entirely private and confidential. You have the option to participate anonymously if you prefer.
You don’t have to share anything personal that you don’t want to. Many couples face common challenges, and you can learn from each other's questions.
During live sessions and Q&A, you can use an initial or different name and keep your camera off if you choose.
Our experience shows that those who choose to interact often find it a beneficial and empowering experience that supports their journey.
However, it’s always up to you to decide your level of participation and comfort.
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Yes, if you are facing challenges and repeated patterns of conflict, Awakening Love offers you a step-by-step system to create safety in your relationship and work through the underlying issues. This self-paced, cost-effective option provides fundamental skills and crucial insights typically covered in 6 months of couples therapy sessions.
While the course doesn't replace therapy, it lays a strong foundation for relationship growth. If you are committed to the process, Awakening Love offers a transformative experience.
Many participants find that their relationship awareness and skills are significantly enhanced, often leading to noticeable improvements.
As a result, ongoing therapy may become less necessary. However, whether to pursue therapy alongside or after the course depends entirely on your and your partner's unique situation and needs.
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Great question! Our 8-week course is designed to create a focused and supportive environment for change and growth. However, we totally understand that life can get busy. To make sure you have enough time to catch up or revisit your favorite lessons, we provide extended access to the course material for 6 months at no extra cost!
While we don't offer lifetime access, there's a good reason for that. Research shows that when people have unlimited time to complete something, they often end up putting it off indefinitely.
We want you to be a finisher! Our goal is to encourage you to take action and succeed. With 6 months of access, you'll have plenty of time to complete the course at your own pace and make the most out of your experience.
Let's make those positive changes happen together!
Imagine a relationship filled with joy, fulfilment, and deep connection.
That ☝️ is the relationship you can create with the right guidance and tools.
When you nurture your bond with intention and proven strategies, the love and harmony you crave become a reality. But finding that path to a thriving relationship can feel impossible without the right guidance, especially amidst the hustle and bustle of everyday life.
I didn’t grow up with a healthy model of couple relationships. I had to travel the world to learn from the best in the field, read countless books, and dive into research to transform the relationship model I grew up with into a healthy one. The system I created and have used in my own 20+ year relationship is the exact system that has helped thousands of couples transform their relationships. It’s presented in a straightforward, step-by-step program for your convenience.
Now, you can access that wisdom from the comfort of your own home.
If you can commit to small, consistent changes, then you, my friend, have the makings of a deeply satisfying and enduring relationship.
Awakening Love covers every “how to” – from building intimacy to effective communication, from resolving conflicts to reigniting the spark. After Awakening Love, you’ll know exactly how to cultivate the relationship you’ve always desired.
So get ready to celebrate a love that grows stronger each day. 🍾
With all my best,
Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending".
— Maria Robinson
"Time won't heal your relationship on its own. The patterns pulling you apart only grow stronger. If the old ways aren't working, it's time to transform. If you're ready, I'll show you how."
— Dr. Kalanit Ben-Ari
“Kalanit profound expertise, compassionate approach, and unwavering dedication to fostering fulfilling relationships are inspirational, professionally and personally. Her mastery of the Imago Relationship Therapy framework is evident in her presence and joyful aliveness… She has a unique talent for conveying complex concepts with clarity and enthusiasm, making them an invaluable resource ... The impact of Kalanit's work is profound and far-reaching. I wholeheartedly recommend Kalanit… Her wisdom, compassion, and dedication make her an outstanding choice for individuals and couples striving to build stronger, healthier relationships and for professionals looking to enhance their skills in this transformative modality.”
Yafit Nahari, Integrative Psychotherapist
And that’s not all!
When you join Awakening Love, you’ll get the bonus: Energise Your Love: Qi Gong for Couples with Rosa Kelly!
Valued at £49
Here’s what you’ll discover:
✨ A series of fun and gentle Qi Gong practices designed specifically for couples.
✨ Experience a deeper connection, grounding, and balance as you practice together.
✨ Naturally boost your energy levels—including your sexual energy!
✨ And the best part? You can enjoy these easy-to-follow routines right from the comfort of your own home.
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